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Can forgiveness be seen as a weakness or a strength?

Jarret Waryk

Forgiveness can be seen as both a weakness and a strength. Let me explain what that means.

When someone forgives another person, it means they are choosing to let go of any anger or hurt they may feel towards that person. This can be seen as a strength because it takes a lot of courage and maturity to forgive someone, especially if they have hurt you deeply.

On the other hand, some people may see forgiveness as a weakness because they think it means you are letting the other person get away with what they did without facing any consequences. They may think that forgiving someone means you are too soft-hearted or that you can be easily taken advantage of.

But here's the thing, forgiving someone doesn't mean you forget what they did or that you have to continue to have a relationship with them. It simply means that you are choosing to let go of any negative feelings towards that person and move on with your life.

Now, forgiving someone doesn't necessarily mean that they will change their behavior or that they will even apologize for what they did. It's important to remember that forgiveness is a personal choice and it's for your own benefit, not necessarily for the other person's benefit.

So, is forgiveness a weakness or a strength? Ultimately, it's up to you to decide. But I believe that forgiving someone can be a powerful and liberating experience. By choosing to forgive, you are freeing yourself from the burden of anger and resentment, and allowing yourself to move forward with your life in peace.