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Is social media hindering our ability to be authentic?

Beatrice Sotham

Well, well, well, my dear friends. Are we finally coming to the realization that social media might not be as perfect as we thought? I mean, let's be honest, we spend hours scrolling through Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, and TikTok, comparing ourselves to others and trying to fit into the mold of what society deems as "perfect". But is social media hindering our ability to be authentic? Absolutely.

First off, let's talk about the carefully curated content we post. I don't know about you guys, but I definitely have a "finsta" (fake Instagram) where I post all my unfiltered, embarrassing, and unedited moments. Why? Because my real Instagram is full of pictures where I'm pretending to be a model, even though I'm really just trying to hide my double chin. The pressure to present the best version of ourselves on social media is real, and it's exhausting. We constantly feel like we need to keep up with the latest trends, post the perfect selfie, and get as many likes and followers as possible. But at what cost? Our authenticity, time, and mental health.

Secondly, let's talk about the impact of social media on our relationships. Gone are the days where we would have a genuine conversation with someone without checking our phones every two minutes. Nowadays, it feels like our phones are an extension of ourselves, and we're constantly distracted by notifications, messages, and likes. We're so busy trying to keep up with our virtual lives that we forget to live in the present moment and connect with the people around us. And let's not forget the pressure of maintaining a certain image on social media, which can lead to fake interactions, friendships, and even romantic relationships. We're so focused on the superficial aspects of a person's life (their looks, their status, their likes) that we forget to appreciate their true character, flaws, and quirks.

Lastly, let's talk about the impact of social media on our mental health. Social media can be a toxic environment, full of comparison, envy, and negativity. We're bombarded with perfect bodies, perfect homes, perfect relationships, and it's easy to fall into the trap of feeling inadequate and unworthy. And let's not forget the endless scrolling, which can lead to procrastination, insomnia, and anxiety. We're so addicted to our phones that we forget to take care of ourselves and our mental well-being.

In conclusion, social media is hindering our ability to be authentic by promoting a culture of perfectionism, superficiality, and addiction. But fear not, my dear friends, there are ways to break free from this toxic cycle. We can start by being honest and vulnerable on social media, by embracing our imperfections and quirks, and by connecting with people on a deeper level. We can also set boundaries and prioritize our mental health, by taking breaks from social media, practicing mindfulness, and seeking professional help if needed. Remember, authenticity is not about being perfect, it's about being true to ourselves and our values. So, let's put down our phones, take a deep breath, and embrace our imperfect, beautiful selves.